I was a technical employee at BNY. I took the job out of desperation after a divorce and having to start over from scratch. I knew several people who worked there and quit and knew the reputation the company had. I really did not want to work there, but I had to take the first thing I could get at the time.
I did my best for about 6 months before I was crushed by the weight of the stress and toxic culture. I wanted to stay for at least a year before changing jobs and I was determined to stick it out as long as possible. I started turning down assignments and pushing back on unreasonable demands, as I was no longer willing to sacrifice my mental health for... whatever we were supposedly accomplishing.
My manager pulled me aside for a 1 on 1 and told me my performance was a problem. At any company I worked for previously (and since), employees pushing back and communicating concerns is normal and accepted, but this is clearly not tolerated at BNY.
I explained to him that I have Major Depressive Disorder and the unreasonable hours, demands, stress etc were causing me personal problems. I thought what I was doing was a reasonable and transparent way to manage a work/life balance and keep from completely burning out.
He interrupted me partway through my explanation with "I don't care, I have problems too."
Ok.
So I made a decision then and there to mess up BNY any way I could for the remainder of the time I was there.
I convinced 2 other people on my team to leave for other jobs. I found every possible way to complicate things and not actually do any work while still contributing to meetings and sounding like a team player.
Rumors of a mass layoff were circulating and I figured I was on the list. I lined up job interviews and conducted them on company time using company equipment. By the time my layoff notice came, I already had another job offer. I accepted the BNY severance package and immediately started my new job while still cashing those sweet BNY checks for several months.
"I don't care," indeed.