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What worse will happen if I complain to my skip level manager or HR

I have been stressed lately due to unrealistic pressure from my direct line manager. The short sighted demands from my manager are just a knee jerk reaction to what my manager hears from his superiors.
I am still early in my career, but wondering if I should compain for my second line manager or its a norm in industry to just keep doing short term throw-away work to keep the boss happy?

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@clm

This is hilarious.

Revise the resume, leave and never ask for references.

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Post ID: @3bei+1tuVQPyz

Nothing here is anonymous, every manager tells. If you are good with your manager finding out you complained about them go ahead but I can tell you they have long memories, don’t forgive and never admit it’s them and not you with the problem.

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Post ID: @2xlg+1tuVQPyz

Dear OP, you are dishonest and fake. You came across as if you were employed here and looking for advice not employment. Pretty slimy. You are exactly what any company does not need more of. Go away.

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Post ID: @2lbv+1tuVQPyz

I was the OP on this. Just wanted to check before saying No to a job offer at the firm. Seems what I heard is true. You lot are indeed toxic. Enjoy guys, you peole.must be miserable and I doubt any of you go for post work drinks. Who would.

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Post ID: @2cqd+1tuVQPyz

Abuse? … for not being able to multitask?

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Post ID: @2qfr+1tuVQPyz

Proof of hardship doing an Ops job?

This reads far more like a PIP candidate to me.

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Post ID: @2msr+1tuVQPyz

Get over it and grow up.

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Post ID: @2hog+1tuVQPyz

No one at this or any company cares and the sooner you accept this operate accordingly the better off you will be.

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Post ID: @2kec+1tuVQPyz

3 1/2 years into my first job out of college, I complained to HR about my manager/job. My manger found out and made my life he-l for the three or so months I stayed in that job.

Just saying.

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Post ID: @2iam+1tuVQPyz

Keep complaining until Roman comes to make balloon animals for you.

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Post ID: @1crp+1tuVQPyz

Or you can recommit to your job, focus and keep the cell phone out of your hand until after if quits witching.

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Post ID: @1ztv+1tuVQPyz

You’ll get to meet Robin and your career will take off LOL.

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Post ID: @1esx+1tuVQPyz

Incredible… virtually every post here in this topic demonstrates career ending toxicity issues with our hires. I predict a very long and unsuccessful career.

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Post ID: @1wpi+1tuVQPyz

Your career will inevitably be unsatisfactory if you don’t grow up fast?

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Post ID: @1wso+1tuVQPyz

You’re probably in the wrong job field. It happens. I’d look at something that you enjoy and for which have an aptitude.

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Post ID: @1yzl+1tuVQPyz

You need to bypass both and go straight to ethics where it’s completely anonymous

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Post ID: @1qbz+1tuVQPyz

MXK you are not professional. And CLM there is. CLM actually sounds managerial. You do not.

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Post ID: @1cqp+1tuVQPyz

ignore @clm or you’ll quickly move from new employee to employee on a PIP (Personnel Performance Plan). You want to get in step with your manager… not to browbeat him or here.

@clm Is very jaded and giving ver bad advice.

Don’t run in the wrong circles

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Post ID: @1mxk+1tuVQPyz

Thank you very much. Some good tips here. I am OP and yes, it ia my first professional job.

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Post ID: @zqj+1tuVQPyz

Everybody feels that they work hard.

Pro Tip … work the hardest on your team, be visible and ask your manager questions which demonstrate that you are visibly engaged.

Judging by the posts here you can rise up very fast and very far.

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Post ID: @asl+1tuVQPyz

First professional job?

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Post ID: @zsu+1tuVQPyz

Have you set up a meeting with all the proof of hardship and hours you’ve spent with your direct manager first? You must first discuss and get all your issues on the table with him / her. Document everything and have examples and cases of stress. Then ask your manager point blank for help and a plan on how they can better help you and the company. Your manager was put there to remove problems for people not to create them. How can the manager do that if you go above their head from the start? You only go to your boss’s boss if you have been failed by your direct mgr on this more than twice. As for HR here, expect nothing unless you documented proof of abuse. Honestly? Either look to transfer after a year or just start looking at positions elsewhere.

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